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Hard To Get
Your Personal Guidebook on
How to Play the Game of Love!

by Mimi Tanner, Author of Calling Men,
How To Flirt With Men, and Man Mistake Eraser

An open letter from writer Mimi Tanner

Hey Beautiful,
No matter what they tell you, men love it when you drive them crazy.
They love it!
In my class "Hard To Get" you'll discover how to drive a man crazy.
Men feel very much alive when they are crazy with passion and interest
for a woman who rivets their attention.
One way to get a man's attention is to do LESS, not more.
Does "hard to get" increase the intensity? You bet it does.
For example, many of us have an old flame who stays in our minds.
One reason that person stays in our minds is because we don't HAVE that
person.
They're extremely HARD TO GET.
That affects how much you THINK about them and want them.
It intensifies the intensity. And falling in love is all about
intensity!
"Hard To Get" is for the fearless, because the idea of "Hard to Get" is
controversial.
It's also a well-understood fact of simple human nature.
Some people hear this phrase and automatically think it means being
"manipulative" - resorting
to "tricks" to "get a man."
First - who says you need to "get a man"? You don't. You need to "get"
yourself - and know that if a man "gets" you, then he's a lucky bloke
indeed.
Easy equals desperate. Easy equals not waiting for what is special.
Easy means not being okay
with being on your own.
Some women say, "With a really great man, I shouldn't need to play
games."
We say, "Great men love a challenge. When they're married to you,
they'll cherish you all the more because you were hard to get."
Truer words were never spoken.
Sometimes, a woman knows that the way she came across - in a first
meeting - with a guy she liked WAS NOT the way she really wanted - and
was not the true, confident HER. Maybe out of nerves, she came across a
little needy or insecure. Only the slightest fine-tuning could have
made a big difference.
Some women say, "I don't have the energy to work on how I come across
to men."
We say, "Most worthwhile things take energy and effort. The results are
worth it."
Some MEN say, "I don't want a woman who plays games."
We say, "Yeah, right. What men think they want and what they really
want are usually two different things! It's just that some women are
"hard to get" for them - naturally.
Some women say, "I just don't like the whole idea of playing hard to
get."
We say, "Consider the alternative. It's not a pretty picture. Not being
hard to get means that you get to Emotional First Base long before he
does. When he realizes that you are there before him - he will start
backing away from you. This causes a lot of broken hearts."
Hard To Get means you are in control - and you're a lot more likely to
get the man you want and to have a better relationship with him in the
long run.
"How true - how true! When I'm being mysterious and not pouring out my
emotional needs, I have total control. I hate to say it, but the more
I'm mysterious, the more he wants to be with me." -- Lisa
Hard to Get is a time-honored principle for a reason - it has helped
hundreds of thousands
of women to learn the meaning of valuing themselves and using
self-restraint and self-discipline when some of their strongest urges
could have resulted in actions that would have NOT worked in their best
interests in the long run.
Make no mistake about it. Love is a "game" - the most wonderful "game"
ever invented. Play to win. Play hard.... to get!
Love is not for the faint of heart. How well we all know that!

The Game... of Love?? Shocking!

Is it "playing a game" with a man when you play hard to get?

Yes! Playing hard to get is definitely one of the games of love (as if
you didn't know).

Now let me ask you a question.

When did games get such a bad name?

Everyone loves games; from football to cards. Games are one of life's
chief methods of entertainment.

Why are games okay when it comes to sports and backgammon, but not okay
when it comes to romance?

"Because love is not a game!" some say. "How DARE you encourage anyone
to play games of the heart!!"

Not True! Love IS a game - the most fun game ever invented - and it
has always been a game. You've been involved, whether you knew it or
not!

This is Mimi Tanner's Latest and Most Controversial Program - the Long
Awaited "Hard To Get"!

"Mimi Tanner is simply one of the best when it comes to writing to
women on the art of finding and keeping a great man. She has become
well-known on a global scale in a relatively short time. Why? Because
she covers highly in-demand subjects with a flair and disarming
friendliness that is unequalled."

Relationship Coaches Scot and Emily McKay
Hosts of "X and Y on the Fly" Podcasts
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I will also include you in my daily email column which is read and
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Hi - My name is Mimi Tanner. Many people know me as the author of:

"Calling Men - The Complete Guide to Calling, Emailing, and Texting the
Men You Date"

"Secrets of Flirting With Men" - How To Flirt With Any Man
on the Planet

"Man Mistake Eraser - How to Regain a Man's Interest"

and other writings. I have literally spent a lifetime studying the
subject of MEN - and WOMEN - everything from flirting to attracting,
chasing, being chased, falling in love, and why men and women fall in
love.

I know what it takes to win a man's heart, and to win it back - and my
advice has worked for literally thousands of women who write me every
day to tell me about it. I hope you will read my daily email column and
find out why so many women have learned so much about how to handle the
men in their life - and even marry their Mr. Right, too - when the time
is right.

Some people approach love with so many expectations and so much
seriousness, and yet they wonder why they have one bad experience after
another!

So the first lesson in Hard To Get is to lighten up, if you happen to
be one of the Serious Sad Sacks who expect your Prince to love you
anyway, WARTS and all, "for yourself" - right now, the right way, and
with no game playing whatsoever!

FACT - if you're not playing the game of love, you're missing out on
all the fun - and so is the love of your life! This is true whether
you're single or you've been married for thirty years. If you are in a
relationship, or you want to be in a relationship, then you will be
served best to get very, very good at the game of love.

"But Mimi, what about "manipulation??"

Many people are against the idea of playing hard to get. They say it's
wrong; it's manipulative; it's trickery of the worst order.

First of all, I'm here to show you exactly why that is NOT true.

Second, what those people are really afraid of is that playing hard to
get will give you an "unfair advantage." And you know what? It will.

Last time I checked, all was still fair in love and war. I've got news
for you - great news, in fact:

There's nothing wrong with playing games when it comes to love - as
long as your games are for the benefit of everyone concerned - the
benefit right now, and the benefit for the rest of your life - the one
you're going to spend together because you're both so in love with each
other.

Let the games begin! And when you play the game of love, be sure to
play hard to get.

Be Hard To Get - or Easy To Forget

Picture this.

A man meets a woman. He says, "You're a fine-looking woman. I'd like
to go out with you and in about a year, we'll get married." She says,
"Great! Works for me."

What's wrong with this picture?

Would you watch a movie if this were the plot? Of course not!

Why not? Because it would be BORING!

You wouldn't read a book like that, either. In fact, any book on love,
whether it was published last week or 200 years ago - has more of a
plot than that!

So why would you want YOUR LOVE LIFE to be boring - when you can create
memories and have fun - and still be true to your highest self?

Being Hard To Get in the Right Way

So tell me - how do men perceive you right now?

Are you the girl next door? Are you his friend but you want to be
more?

Are you the kind of woman a man loses sleep over, worrying about
whether he'll win your heart?
That same man who never calls you back is quite capable of falling head
over heels in love with a woman who makes him feel an overwhelming
desire to win her. This happens even with guys who say they are "afraid
of commitment." Somehow when a certain kind of woman comes along, these
guys miraculously lose their fear of commitment because they are so
busy trying to get this woman into their lives - determined, in fact.

But what does it take to become that kind of woman in your man's life?
Hard To Get is a private program, delivered to you online, which speaks
to the hearts of thousands of women. It's that kind of program that
women love to own and generally don't tell the entire world about it -
but they devour the book privately and take its principles to heart.

How do you know when you have won his heart?

When he wants to show you off to his friends.
When he can't wait to bring home to meet his parents.
When he calls you during the day to see how you're
doing.
When he does thoughtful things for you - just because.
When other men are around you at a party, he's confident
in you, but... keeping his eye on the situation!

Perceived Value and the Scarcity Factor

One of the great lessons of love is known as the scarcity factor.
Plain and simple: people tend to want what they cannot have!
When things are hard to obtain, they seem more valuable - to put
it mildly.

What if someone told you that you could buy a 2-year-old Jaguar
for $15,000. What would you think?

You'd think that there must be something wrong with it. (And you'd
probably be right.)

When you think of luxury items or designer clothing, what is the
number-one thing that sets them apart? Is it the workmanship? The
quality?

Perhaps - but far more than that, it's the PRICE. That
is what gets your attention and makes it stand apart from all the
others - it costs more, and it's harder to obtain. Fewer people will be
able to get it - and if you have it, it's clear that you must have had
something special in order to get it.

But things are only as valuable as someone thinks. And the more
rare something is, the more people think it is worth.
I once searched high and low to find a special, out-of-print
book. It was written in the 1950's and few people remembered it. I
was thrilled to finally find the book, and paid $150 over the internet
in order to obtain this rare copy.
Only a few weeks later, the very same book was given to me by a
public school librarian who was about to throw it out because no one
had checked it out in at least fifteen years.
Obviously some people think that book is valuable - or the price
would not have been so high - but for others, it was gathering dust and
needed to be discarded.
It's called "perceived value."
How does this apply to relationships between men and women? It
really starts on the inside. If you value yourself, it will show, and
others will value you more, too.
If you value yourself, you will be focused on your own goals and
activities - and less focused every waking minute on some guy. That
automatically makes you more hard to get.

What's the opposite of hard to get? It's desperate. Desperation
repels others, and is revealed in a thousand subtle ways - all of which
you need to avoid like the plague.
I get a lot of email from women who are spending enormous amounts
of time thinking about a guy in their life, but who are not spending
enormous amounts of time adding value to their own lives by learning
and growing. That is the first step to becoming hard to get.

It's not about being self-absorbed or selfish - it's really about
self-respect. The greatest gift you have is YOU. What you do with this
gift will affect not only you, but literally thousands of people.
Whether you believe it or not, you already have an image. People
know you and are aware of you - your presence is known. Your image is
out there. You are somebody already.

Is that somebody the kind of person who is sought after?
Start today to see yourself as the kind of woman who makes men
lose sleep thinking about you!

What's "Hard To Get" All About?

Exactly How to Be Hard To Get

How To Work With Human Nature Instead of Against It

Why You Shouldn't Act Like He's the One

Why Intensity Matters So Much

What Men Fear that Drives Them Away - and How To Avoid It

The Chase - Why It Matters So Much to Both of You!

Ultimatums (why you'll never need one, and Plan B if you DO need
one)

The "Reverse Ultimatum" - You won't have to say a word to him!

Men Who Can't Say "I Love You"

Why You Should NEVER Initiate the "Serious Talk" With Any Man

and much, much more!

Here's a Peek at What You Get Immediately When You Order:

Class One - "The Serious Talk" - When You Want To Know Where Your
Relationship Is Going"!

The first class of "Hard To Get" is called "The Serious Talk - When You
Want To Know Where Your Relationship Is Going"!

Playing Hard to Get Means You Never Initiate the Serious Talk
Ultimatums - the Close Cousin of the Serious Talk
But I Need To Know Where Things Stand!
Biological Clock-Watchers: The Meter is Running
"But If I Never Have a Serious Talk With Him, He May Never
Commit!"
The Boiling Point - "I Don't Care What Happens"
How To Recover From the Serious Talk

Class Two: Human Nature 101

It helps to work along with nature - instead of trying to
fight against it!
"Hard to Get" is a fundamental truth of human nature. That
is one of the themes we're talking about in this class. "Hard to Get"
is for the smart woman who doesn't mind shaking things up!

Playing Hard to Get Works!

Class Three: "How To Get Rid of the Other Woman" (Piece of Cake)

Here are the most effective ways to ward off the other
woman. Don't compete with her - handle her. "Piece of Cake!"
Can you triumph over a female threat to your relationship?
Is there someone who intrudes on your happy world with him? This
month's class will provide unforgettable ways to handle any woman
wishes YOUR man belonged to HER.

Class Four: "Beauty and the Frump" - and -
Maintaining Your Mystery with Men

We don't want to be loved for our looks or to lose out to
another woman because of looks. How to understand how this fits in the
puzzle of relationships, and what is and isn't important. Then in Part
Two of this class, we talk about how to enhance your confidence and
make it easier than you may have ever considered.

Class Five: The Pursuit of Love
How To Get Chased By Men

Men love pursuit - and pursuit must be difficult. Class 5 is
chock-full of advice on HOW to be pursued by men, and why men love to
pursue women. Men love it when you make it difficult to win you.

You'll read about many ways to hold back so he can come to you.

Class Six is "The Reverse Ultimatum!"

Here's why Traditional Ultimatums are a showdown where
someone always loses. You don't want this kind of "shotgun wedding"
with the man you love. Find out how to get the same results without
breaking a sweat or burning your bridges.

The "Reverse Ultimatum" includes a special section on called
"He Just Wants to Live Together!"

More from "Hard To Get":

How to Get His Attention and get him to Chase You!

Hard to Get is Human Nature 101

Why What He Works For Has More Value

"He Was Not Going To Let Me Get Away"

"Who wants to play games just to keep a man?"

Hard to Get is about self-control and confidence

How to get comfortable on That Pedestal

"He started to behave differently."

When things are going so well - then everything changes

How to Get Rid of the Other Woman - Piece of Cake!

Does a woman have to be hard to get forever?

Why the Best Men Love Women Who are Hard to Get

The Reverse Ultimatum!

And Much More!!

How The Class Works

1. As soon as you order, you receive the current edition of the Hard To
Get class online. You'll continue to receive more as the class
continues.

2. You can print out and save each class.

3. There is a huge bonus section with unadvertised bonuses that you
will love.

4. Start having fun finding out how to make him work hard for your
attention!

Get "Hard To Get" -
Your Online Class by Mimi Tanner

As soon as you order, you receive over five classes that are part of
the Hard To Get series. You'll continue to get new classes as this
unique class continues.

You'll also receive 2 big unadvertised bonuses on the Bonus Page.

Click Here to Find Out More

Hard to get does not mean impossible to get! I'll show you how to
enjoy "the chase" and how to be in control of your love life and your
future.

Being hard to get means you'll never have to settle for less than
the happiness you really want. Discover how the chase will be
thrilling and memorable for both of you - with love, respect, fun, and
excitement.

Being hard to get means enhancing your mystery, no matter how well
he thinks he knows you!

Yes, love is a game. Let the games begin! And when you play the
game of love, be sure to play hard to get!

With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of Calling Men, Secrets of Flirting with Men, Man Mistake Eraser
and more

Click Here to Order or To Find Out More

You go Mimi! I hope these women "get" what you are saying.

You are a potential life preserver for many, Mimi.....I hope they grab
the HUGE BUOY OF INFORMATION you throw to them as they flail along in
the sea of relationships.......you offer them the ways and means to
preserve their precious life, sanity, dignity and INTEGRITY!!!!!!

Fondly,
S. G.

Dear Mimi,

Wanted to give you a thanks for your amazing work. I've purchased
almost all of your programs, and today I purchased your "man mistake
eraser" guide.

I just want to say, from someone who's read EVERYTHING there is to read
about dating/relationships, nothing comes close to this!!!

Finally, a positive out look and an ANSWER on what to ACTUALLY do
instead of pages and pages of junk! I'm a huge fan of yours and will
continue to support ANY of your work!

L.

Click Here to Order or To Find Out More

This is Mimi Tanner's Latest and Most Controversial Program - the Long
Awaited "Hard To Get"!

For questions or help with your order, contact:
help [at] oakforestbooks

HardToGet
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228 Park Ave. S. Suite #346-90
New York, NY 10003
Phone: 212-495-0202

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